This whole sharing a bed thing is funny. My girlfriend's brother came to visit us a month ago. Hes like 20 years old. He brought a friend with him. They are both Fratboy types, very atractive, play football at college kinda guys. They are from down south and are very homofobic. But what i found strange was that they didnt mind stripping to their boxers and getting into bed together. Now, i have always been ok with sharing a bed but most of my friends are not. yet most of my frends are not "homofobic." I mean, my frineds and i have mutual gay friends (something that my girlfriend's brother would not be cool with.)
I just think its strange how we all have different bounderies and percieve things differently. For my girlfriend's brother its gay to have gay friends but not to share a bed with another dude while you are one step away from being naked. for my friends its gay to share a bed but not to have gay friends.... cant we all just have gay friends and sleep in the same bed at the same time!!!