i don't think that I could deal with being a virgin at my age....I just turned 32 and I admit I like sex but even in the gay world I think guys put too much importance on it...I was calling chatlines and dating guys when I was 14...yeah I love to have sex but it's not what I'm all about......I have always picked the wrong guys to date..... my last boyfriend made me feel stupid and worthless....I would like to find a guy like you bguy.....you do need to have more confidence in yourself, you're cute.....I don't know how managed to stay a virgin...but it's a good thing too with all the disease in the world....