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Originally Posted by bguy  Thanks for the different perspective. Yes, I'd ideally like to find a really special woman that would be understanding and feel flattered. But I'd hate to lose someone special that would find it unattractive when it came up. Frankly, I don't get the impression that "most women" would feel flattered. I mean, how would you feel if you were dating a 31-year-old divorced guy and once things started to get to a sexual point, he told you he's a virgin? Would you really feel flattered, or would you be thinking 'What's wrong with this guy?' |
if he told me that his wife had some kind of sexual issue and the marriage was never consumated?
i'd think he must be very kind to have let the situation continue.
i'd think he must be incredibly faithful to have never strayed in all those years.
i'd think that in a world full of liars, users, players and arseholes this guy is really rather special.
or you could choose not to tell them at all. if you've read up & watched lovers guide then i doubt she'd notice.
some of the best sex i ever had was with a virgin.