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Originally Posted by dolfette  stop thinking about yourself as a virgin and start thinking of yourself as a man, a potential lover, a human being.
start meeting women and dating...no need to pre-warn them on your first date.
just get to know them and explain when the issue arises.
no woman worth knowing will think less of you.
most women would feel flattered that you want them to be the one. |
Thanks for the different perspective. Yes, I'd ideally like to find a really special woman that would be understanding and feel flattered. But I'd hate to lose someone special that would find it unattractive when it came up. Frankly, I don't get the impression that "most women" would feel flattered. I mean, how would
you feel if you were dating a 31-year-old divorced guy and once things started to get to a sexual point, he told you he's a virgin? Would you really feel flattered, or would you be thinking 'What's wrong with this guy?'