chill.

that's my advice.

usually i'm brutally honest on this ste but there's nothing to be brutal about here.

what matters more?
popping your cherry?
or losing your virginity to a woman you really care for?

if it's the first then just go for it.
start hitting on women.

if it's the second?
stop thinking about yourself as a virgin and start thinking of yourself as a man, a potential lover, a human being.
start meeting women and dating...no need to pre-warn them on your first date.
just get to know them and explain when the issue arises.
no woman worth knowing will think less of you.
most women would feel flattered that you want them to be the one.