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Originally Posted by Slant  You strike me as a well-spoken, sensitive guy, and I think that's a big part of your problem, sadly. You're obviously a really pleasant dude and I do empathize with you, but I think you'd gain a lot from the ''oh well, her loss" attitude to some degree. |
I think you're right that it's about the overall attitude. I have definitely reached the point of 'oh well, her loss' towards my ex-wife, which was a big step for me. So now that I know what that feels like I can start growing it a bit. Thanks for the encouragement.