Edman,

I can certainly understand how you must feel. I have been married 3-1/2 years and our sex life literrally stopped after our "honeymoon". Every time I attempt to approach the subject, so that we can discuss it, I get "I'm just not interested in sex", or simply does not respond to the subject matter. And, every time I "make a pass" I'm turned away; giving silly, giggly, "No, not tonight hunny" excuses. I have completely given up at making advances, because they are always turned away.... and partners wonder why affairs take place...

So, you're not alone Mate! I truly hope that your situation changes for the better.