im a grower myself.. my dick is not much to look at when its truthfully 100% soft (most guys on here post pics of their dick in semi form and say its soft.. total bs) im only about 4 inches long soft... and almsot double in size when hard
the only advantage of being a show'er would be for the first .02 seconds before it gets hard with a girl, or taking showers with guys... but anyone knows soft means nothing