I disagree Jwood.

I think that this is a very good question.

If I am reading you right 8060, you are saying that you feel because of your cock and maybe what you do with it, people fast forward where they are going with the relationship, before you are happy to be in the same place.

I have had these issues. It is very disconcerting. You want to tell them to slow down, but they won't. They act like you have solved all their problems in one easy fix and then they want more and more. I wish I could say that I have found a way to deal with this, but i haven't. These relationships invariably stop very soon for me.