Wow, Lito,

I hate it that you are having to go through something like this. You have every right to feel hurt. And I know I wouldn't blame you if you never ever spoke to this woman again.

What she did was wrong. But she is the one that is going to have to live with herself and her actions. Sounds to me like she is the one missing out on a great guy. Her loss.


One nosey question though.......is there a chance that maybe this woman has committment issues (she has a fear is committment) and you two were getting too close and she kind of like freaked out.....pulled away.....talked to her friends......who were jealous of you because they want your woman all to theirself......so they tell her that they think you are gay and for her to dump you......and she is still so freaked out and emotionally fragile she breaks down and tells you that her friends think you are gay. And she doesn't mean to hurt you.......she is just all freaked out because she hasn't ever felt so close to committing herself to anyone.

I would give her one week.......and if she hasn't come back to you on her knees telling you she was sorry and that she made a mistake listening to her friends.....and that she won't ever put anyone over you ever again...... If she hasn't had a mind change in one week.......I would just forget about her and move on.

This is what I would do........this is what I did......when I was single. I always gave everyone the benefit of the doubt until it was proven otherwise. People make mistakes. Give her one week to apologize. And you can decide whether to get back with her or not.......if she comes to you begging your forgiveness.

That's my opinion and advice.