She sounds like a strange person, and someone you should avoid. There's nothing wrong with a guy trying to look his best, but obviously not to an extreme where he looks effeminate and over the top; unless that's the look you're trying to achieve, which in your case does not sound that way at all.

Some people say Ryan Seacrest looks gay, is gay, is effeminate looking, and I don't think so. To me, he's a good looking guy who takes care of himself. I've seen pics of him when he's not all fixed up and he still looks good.