A good friend, to reflect with, I'm one to sweat the small stuff. a good meal, take a shrink to lunch , play your favorite song, Maureen by Sade anyone?, music always makes me happy, dress sharp & go out where folks know & like you. The compliments you'll recieve & the attention you'll get, it'll lift your spirits. I find it's important not to let what's depressing me consume me. So I get outside of it, literally. And........ I Deal With It!