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Originally Posted by Drifterwood  Unconditional sex - an expression of sexuality without an attempt to build a permanent emotional attachment. Why is this meaningless? |
Meaningless is not the right word. There may be meaning in a temporary arrangement but it is defined by that word. The physical may have no limitations but everything else does.
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Originally Posted by Drifterwood Conditional sex - sex as part of a wider deal or emotional undertaking. I don't know why we are welded to thinking that this is the only type of sexual existence that means anything. |
Pommes and oranges. Again, it's not but the limitations of a temporary emotional experience are there. It is rare to find that FWeeB who is truly a friend as well as a sex buddy and I am fortunate to have such a good friend in a former FWeeB. The attachment I have with my current partner is nothing like what I had/have with my friend. Neither is wrong nor bad. What you're suggesting is that one is thought to be ideal while the other isn't. I say neither is ideal for any one person unless they believe it to be so for themselves.