What do we have to go on in this discussion? Is there any scientific measure to determine how any man can be judged to be 50% gay and 50% straight? I know of none therefore all we have to go on is each man's assessment of the correct percentages. My own is a guess and I suspect that most others had to do a bit of guessing too unless they came near to 100% on either side. I know from my own experience that I have been able to be happy and satisfied in long term relationships on both side. Yet I have spent the last many years as a faithful married man. I guessed 30% gay because when I do see my old male partners I still get that old feeling; I just do not act on it. When one is happy in a loving and committed relationship why would one want to change?
As for the public, they are free to make whatever guesses they want about my sexual orientation. One hopes in posting that others may benefit from one's opinion, observations, hunches, etc. That is what this site is all about. Right? |