not doing anything wrong....my suggestion would be to go and piss, then dig right back in playing with your prostate....I have found that when I reach this point (where I need to piss bad), if I speed up and put more pressure on my prostate, and then kinda just let go and push like you do to pee, that I have a non ejaculating orgasm....I mean I spray a piss and cum mix all over the place, but I don't actually cum....after I do this, I jack off and the feeling is mind-blowing