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Old 03-29-2008   #14 (permalink)
njqt466
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Well, I don't know if Aspergers is a mental illness per-say, but I just don't get into very many relationships period.
I thought it was a neurological thing because it deals with the brain and how it filters information.That's no surprise because Aspies have trouble reading facial cues and voice inflections so forming relationships is always difficult for them.

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I'm more the strong-protective silent type. Oddly, women (around here at least) don't like that.
You need a change of venue then. That type of man never goes out of style.

Relationships are hard for me. I can barely remember what I'm supposed to do day-to-day, even then I have to write it down on my pda or something. But sex for me, especially with a woman, is an experience every time. Every time I learn something about her. Where her pleasure spots are, where her stress is, and what I need to do to please her 100%.
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Its just the social part I'm not good at. They think I'm too quiet.
Often silence can be read by others as lack of interest. Men on the other hand find the quiet part very attractive, but only for a short period of time.

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Not to mention most people don't want a LTR with a Bi- guy.
I think that issue has been addressed in a few other threads. Many 100% gay men don't want to be involved with a man who will leave them for a woman. 100% straight women definetely don't want to put their heart on the line for a man that could just as easily leave them for the next hot guy that walks by.


IMHO, there are a few bi-guys who have no clue how to be monogamous and have thus ruined it for bi-guys who can.