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Old 03-29-2008   #16 (permalink)
Phil Ayesho
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Originally Posted by widenine View Post
could you have been wired bisexual from the beginning?
As I kinda said... I am claiming that EVERY man is wired bisexual from the beginning.

Its simply a matter of experience that either awakens you to that fact... or suppresses it.

I think all male children go thru a period of sexual plasticity in which they are kinda turned on by anything even remotely sexual.

depending upon what happens to you in this period, you can turn out as the kind of man who thinks jerking off with your buddies is not that strange... or the kind of man who is not all that averse to screwing a sheep when its been awhile...

Its pretty clear that homophobes are men who, during this period of plasticity, were horribly shamed by some authority figure for their curiosity...
So they grow up to hate and deny these feelings... even seeking out those that induce these hated feelings and 'punishing them' for creating this conflict...



While I think we tend to be wired with a some form of preference... that is, some men will have far more interest in the opposite sex and some far more in the same sex... but most will be some point in the middle...

and just where they end up will have a lot to do with their experiences.

I think its possible for a guy who really prefers women to learn to enjoy sex with men.

It doesn't change his preference... he's simply figured out that sex feels good no matter what.