Great post, Jovial!

I ask when it seems like we are getting close to intimate contact. I pretty much know who has a chance to fuck or get a hj/bj soon after meeting them. It isn't a surprise, at least to me.

If the person has not been tested, I'll tell them to come back after they do. If the person makes it a "you don't trust me?" issue, they'll hear the brutal truth - I don't.