How long have you been with the new boyfriend? And how sexually experienced is he? Just my curious mind wanting to know.

I have been married for about 19 years and I don't remember my husband ever having a problem with this. Unless it was when we first got together or something. Can't remember.

But I have heard of this......and it sounds like your boyfriend is getting way too excited and coming before he should be. There are exercises and techniques that he can do to help him build up and last longer.

Seems like I remember that when he is thrusting in you and he feels like he is about to cum.....he is supposed to pull out and you grab his balls and it supposed to help keep him from cuming. Maybe that is the stop and start and grab the balls technique. I can't remember the other suggestions other than trying to think about non sexy things to keep him from cuming too soon.

Also it might help if your boyfriend practiced his cumming control with daily masterbation sessions. I am just guessing with that one..... Hopefully, the longer you two are together.....the less over excited he will be during your lovemaking for your sake.