I would like to raise the following issues:

1. You say inches don't matter, yet you ask partners about their ex partners.


Regarding your 'conclusions':

1. Unless you are above 9inches your wife or girfriend has probably had a bigger penis that you have (and for most of us she will have had a much bigger penis).

Not true. Given that most girls have 1-10 sexual partners.

2. Because of point 1 inches don't mean anything (but it is nice to know the stats even though her experience is the key thing).

The vagina is a small space. The more tightly 'packed' it is, the more sensation and feeling of 'fullness' a woman has. Therefore, inches do matter. But moreso girth inches than length inches.

3. Bigger penises feel "different" and this different feeling is probably pleasurable for most women (to a point). This means I can take a bit of an ego boost from knowing that mine probably feels better than an average penis even if I have to live with the fact that a Mr Big might feel even better (conundrum is - I actually want size to matter because I am above average!).

So you're saying inches do matter?

4. Despite point 3, penetration is only part of sex so keep things in perspective.

But still, penetration is the main event. And a "big" attraction makes it a better experience.

I think you worry about this "Mr. Big" too much. I don't ask girls about their ex's. Although I enjoy what I have and I make sure my partners do too. Inches matter.

Although I will say, people can only know (whether they like/dislike, love/hate) something that is within their experience; if a woman has only experienced average penises then obviously inches don't matter. But I think for a woman who has crossed over to the Large Side, inches will matter.

It's Volume & Capacity...school all over again...