When I was in a relationship, it would never happen. I had no space for it and somehow it felt wrong to have sex on my own, like being unfaithful - weird. Now single, I do every day and do actually have difficulty getting out of bed at all when off work. I don't use a vibrator as it desensitises over time and I find the orgasms too strong and quick. Instead I make it last out and then get 5 in a row. It takes about 3 hours but I prefer that.

I am single a lot the last couple of years mainly because I cannot find a partner who puts as much dedication into sex as I do. I won't even work full-time because I prefer to have sex instead! I have slept with 3 men in 3 years and they were just average foreplay and penetration guys. An hour after sex with them I wanted it all over again and they were knackered. And they were much young than me at 28 ish (I'm 44).

I have worked on getting the masterbation right - I have modified home gym equipment especially. I need to move and get active with it and work at it, another reason for not using a vibe. It keeps me fit! (Rowing machine works well with dildo strapped onto meters!) I could devote a whole thread to this!!

I hate the way we need men as we are not built to penetrate ourselves much -- cruel mother nature!!!

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