Yes you're right, I should have just said that ONE woman is equating a big cock with masculinity and I generalised it. However MB, I'm pretty sure I've read here or elsewhere, other women mentioning the same or similar. So in my mind, I had already concluded that a lot of women who look for big cocks tend to equate big cocks and masculinity. And perhaps for those that do, could there be something deeper? Could this need for a man with a big cock to represent masculinity have anything to do with, say, a father figure that they never really had?