Fucky buddy or not to fuck buddy....

I wouldn't if I were you. *Let him continue to get together with his online 'friends.'

When physically with you he couldn't follow up - he seems to be most amorous when IM'ing. *There's something distant and detached about that.

You'd probably end up being just another notation in his little black book.

Pecker

(He has the Midas touch. *Everything he touches turns into a muffler.)

chicago_girl: He just wants a fuck buddy and you know that. Go with your gut feeling.

prepstudinsc: [quote author=7by6etC link=board=women;num=1063063652;start=0#8 date=09/08/03 at 17:26:21]I know that feeling - I think one of the reasons I'm not married at 30 yo and some of my friends are at...24, 25, etc. is because I want to make sure I am married ONCE. *I don't take marriage lightly. *Not that anyone does, but I'm a careful soul to begin with.

7x6&C[/quote]

Paul-
It's so refreshing to hear a young guy think that way. I thought I was the only one who felt that marriage is a one time thing. I've got too many friends who, in their early 30's, have been married and divorced, sometimes multiple times. People these days have no respect for the marriage union. Maybe I'm old-fashioned, prudish, etc, but I want to get married once and have it last. My grandparents just celebrated their 63rd wedding anniversary two weeks ago. I know that if I wait much longer to get married, there's not going to be a 63rd anniversary in the cards for me, but I just haven't met a girl that I felt was the right one. I'd rather be single and happy than married and miserable. In the meantime, I'm waiting for the right one to come along.....

wvalady1968: [quote author=prepstudinsc link=board=women;num=1063063652;start=0#17 date=09/13/03 at 0516]

I'd rather be single and happy than married and miserable. *In the meantime, I'm waiting for the right one to come along.....
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So true!! You keep waiting, Paul!! She'll come along.
:-*

Turbo: converting a fuck buddy into more is usually a bad idea.

had that happen once and urghh it was one of the nastiest relationships that ever happened.


If you want a fuck buddy, then go for it.... so long as it can remain just that.
Also be prepared to never see him again.

As for this fella having all this 'other' interest' check to see if they are for real... maybe he might just be pulling a fast one to show u on how sought after he is when he is actually just a sorry ass stalker.

GreenEyes: [quote author=Turbo link=board=women;num=1063063652;start=0#19 date=09/16/03 at 1135]converting a fuck buddy into more is usually a bad idea.

had that happen once and urghh it was one of the nastiest relationships that ever happened.


If you want a fuck buddy, then go for it.... so long as it can remain just that.
Also be prepared to never see him again.

As for this fella having all this 'other' interest' check to see if they are for real... maybe he might just be pulling a fast one to show u on how sought after he is when he is actually just a sorry ass stalker.[/quote]

Thanks Turbo and others for input. It was just a bizarre situation. Now he im's me to see how I am doing and to chat about different things. Shrugs.