Notice it's the straight guys who are saying a definite no. And really they're the authorities on what defines straightness, girls and gays are kinda on the outside looking in on that. I guess I have to agree. It's like people who say "I'm Christian but I don't believe [something in the Bible they don't like]". You can't claim the title and then make your own rules. Either agree to the established rules or admit that you don't completely fit into that category.