I am not so sure that is true for all women, certainly not the few women I have enjoyed long-term relationships with. For many women "hard fucking" too often means a short session; the women I have known preferred the gentle approach following much foreplay and sometimes long moments of inactivity as well. For them, as for me, the sexual act was the way in which we confirmed the bond that had come to exist between us in which two were so together that each of them seemed to know what the other wanted and needed. Yes, that sometimes included what you call "hard fucking" but that was not the norm. |