Yes, foreskins are "uncivili[s]ed and "unnecessary". Until this happens:

`Totally unexpected' death of baby probed, circumcision botched, The Province, newspaper article

Now which is unnecessary - something you were born with or something you were born with being painfully and forcibly removed, scarring you for life? Or your child dying from a needless procedure. Hmm.

As for the OP: Don't listen to the naysayers. Women like cock. Circumcised or uncircumcised. Although in America there is a preference for circumcised and a stupid misguided perception of the natural penis as being dirty, nasty or 'unclean'.

Maybe you could seek some sort of counseling or therapy to help you talk through/deal with the issues. Although you would be doing the world a service if you kept your sons "uncut".