Why do we sweat this question at all. In my own experience, I early found myself in a relationship with a high school friend and over time we discovered a part of our sexuality which we had never considered before and for two years we bonded in friendship and bonded in our shared experience of man-to-man sex. After we graduated from high school we both went on our separate journeys into the fulness of our individual sexuality. We both married. I was married when I found the one person I was willing to bet the rest of my life with. I have not forgotten the joys of sex on my "other side" and I think I have found it easy to be accepting of all varieties of sexual orientation. I do not seek out sex with another man, but, were I free I can imagine that I might be inclined toward that side of my sexuality which has been dormant (except in my fantasy life and memory) for such a long time. I settled on 70% straight and 30% gay, but that is a pure guess. |