pick a random stranger on the street... chances are they are available and could- theoretically, take you.
Does that make it right to ask them?

If you are having an emergency... that's one thing.. but for something you do regularly? Like your laundry? When every other car on the street is a cab?

OFFERING to help someone is not at all the same as asking someone to help you.
The former is being a Samaritan... the latter is imposing.


But you are missing the entire point...

ITs a DATE, fer crissakes... its a delicate negotiation of attraction and sexual energy... its supposed to be about "clicking" with each other... about discovery and excitement...

Not about your chores. And NOT about your infirmities.


Suppose a handsome man asked you out on a date... and showed up with you all ready to go dancing, but he's in his jeans and stained t-shirt... handed you a bundle of clothes and asked if you would be so cool as to iron his suit... while he watched the last quarter of the game on your TV?

Is THAT gonna get you in the mood?
Is that guy gonna get a second date?

Hell, I have caught criticism from dates for not WASHING MY CAR before the date...
why the heck am I having to tell a woman about date etiquette?