You're spoiled.

It is unconscionable to ask so intimate an assistance from a man on your second date.

You and he made a plan. You failed to anticipate for that plan and sprung on him that his plan would have to accommodate your immediate and unanticipated needs.

Saying it would only be 45 minutes is BS. YOU may know that... but his experience may differ... I can tell you that no average looking man gets thru the Er in under 3 hours.


Had you slipped and hurt yourself during your planned date... he probably would have had no problem being there for you...


What the guy saw was a woman who knew she had this kind of issue... and was unwilling to exert herself to take care of it so that it would NOT screw up the date.


Try this on your next new boyfriend.
Hop in his car and tell him he has to swing over to the drug store so you can get a razor so you can shave your legs in his car on your way to Dinner...." you won't mind if I shave my legs in your car willya? I mean, I was just toooo busy to take care of it earlier?"


What you did was no different... no less insensitive, no less taking advantage.

He may have been less than nice to say no....
But you were WAY out of line to even ask.