Originally Posted by sugarandspice

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Yes, he did claim phobia about hospitals but it was more that he felt I should go take care of it myself.

He was RIGHT! He already gave you valid, logical reasons for not wanting to go to the hospital.

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I needed a driver to take me home.

You need to keep a cab service on retainer for these emergencies.
Other men have been more than willing so maybe I'm a little spoiled.

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I also hate to be by myself in the hospital.

Everyone does; but it seems to me you would be used to it by now. Especially since as you said it rarely takes more than 45 minutes.

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I really wanted him to keep me company and he refused.

FFS, get over it and move on! Sounds to me that unlike other men you have dated this one had a backbone.
I think maybe he is not like my other friends and dates.

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He didn't care that I would be alone in the hospital-again.

LOL He just met you!

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I don't want to be a person with unreasonable expectations

and I don't want fair weather friends either. Too late, you already ARE a person with VERY unreasonable expectations.

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I am more suspect of him because he smokes pot.

That alone would have put him out of the running for me. Been there done that, don't need to go back.
Some people who imbibe in that sort of thing only want to be around when everything is perfect..

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HE was the one I had plans with so I felt like we could have just incorporated it into our plans.

Why on earth would you think that?!?! It is very presumptious of you to assume that every man you meet wants to play chauffer and nursemaid.
I thought if he really wanted to see me he shouldn't mind and I thought it was crappy that a man interested in me wouldn't take me to the hospital when I had already tried all my friends. My buds have the flu or their kids had the flu .

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They all called me that evening to see if I was okay and let me know they had missed my messages due to illnesses of their own.

They called to check because they are friends. He is not your friend, you just met him!
oh crap. I think I am rambling again.(or did I catch myself in time?)
I have just been very fortunate that so many others have been willing to hang out with me wherever and however I am.