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Originally Posted by Gillette  Personally I think a hospital visit, however brief, is a bit much for only your second meet.
Did he know all the details that you're sharing with us now? Was he rude in the way he declined?
How do you know he's not phobic about hospitals or illness? I know plenty of men who say the only way they're going into a hospital is unconcious. |
Yes, he did claim phobia about hospitals but it was more that he felt I should go take care of it myself.
I needed a driver to take me home.
Other men have been more than willing so maybe I'm a little spoiled.
I also hate to be by myself in the hospital.
I really wanted him to keep me company and he refused.
I think maybe he is not like my other friends and dates.
He didn't care that I would be alone in the hospital-again.
I don't want to be a person with unreasonable expectations and I don't want fair weather friends either.
I am more suspect of him because he smokes pot.
Some people who imbibe in that sort of thing only want to be around when everything is perfect..
HE was the one I had plans with so I felt like we could have just incorporated it into our plans. I thought if he really wanted to see me he shouldn't mind and I thought it was crappy that a man interested in me wouldn't take me to the hospital when I had already tried all my friends . My buds have the flu or their kids had the flu . They all called me that evening to see if I was okay and let me know they had missed my messages due to illnesses of their own.
oh crap. I think I am rambling again.(or did I catch myself in time?)
I have just been very fortunate that so many others have been willing to hang out with me wherever and however I am.