Thread: Wherefore art thou?
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Old 02-26-2008   #21 (permalink)
invisibleman
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[quote=njqt466;1319261][quote=frizzle;1319139] True, I guess I want a good hard fucking that leads to marriage.

Aww, that's sweet of you to say. So many people here think I'm full of crap.

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Originally Posted by invisibleman View Post
Excuse me! You are being awfully presumptious! I have dated many black men. Heck, I was even pre-engaged to a black man in my younger days.


I thought I had made myself clear on this in earlier posts. I do not hate black men! I am just tired of holding out for the proverbial needle in a haystack. I am most comfortable dating a man who comes from the same socio-economic background, similar education as me, and has similar tastes in music.

I want nothing to do with gangsta/thugs. I loathe rap and hip-hop music, don't speak ebonics, and have no street cred. The sad part is even educated black male professionals think thats 'keeping it real.' I am not a ghetto/fly girl, never have been and don't intend to start now. I refuse to lower myself in that manner.

Black men of similar background to myself only date white women. Take for instance the dear departed Osiris. Perfect example of an educated, professional black man from a decent family. Married to a beautiful, intelligent white woman. Case Closed!




Please, he's like 19, that's what guys his age do (Whatever on that girlfriend. You are talking to Invisibleman not a young-un. You can NOT use the JEDI mind trick on me.)
I didn't say you hated black guys. You aren't into them. You are the one who is wanting well-hung white guys. You din't say you wanted well-hung black guys, did you? You asked "where are the well-hung white guys in Northwest Ga.?" .

Therefore, this isn't about feeling guilty over not wanting to date a black guy. This is about what you truly want. This is about honesty. And this is not to put you on the spot. I wasn't asking you to lower your standards.

I am a black guy. I don't care who you date. There is someone out there who likes black women in pink Shirley Temple girl pannies with a trufflicious booty.