mhk,
'Glad you found us here at the lpsg....
You seem a bit young to have go the Viagra route, but, granted-- you are at an unusually large size. Viagra may indeed help you! I'd delay using Viagra until I got checked out by a urologist. Could be a simple circulatory reason behind your circumstances. (Save the Viagra "approach" for later on in life unless it's really needed at this point now. 'Would hate to see someone at your age become dependant on a medication when you might be able to avoid it altogether at this stage)
I am of the opinion that, as we get older, the firmness and rigidness of our erections will change (ever so gradually over time). Also, the degree of firmness isn't always the same with each and every erection, nor is it the same during an entire session of intercourse. It seems every man is different in some regard in this matter. I wouldn't worry too much just yet!
I'm in my....(uhhh...let's just say mid to late 40's) and I can remember my erections beginning to "wane" abit beginning in my thirties...I still get fairly "rock hard" a good bit, but (at 9.25") I also have some degree of
"squishy" type "firmness" yet, still sufficient to use effectively overall... I attained my current length by enlargement exercises over two plus years and find the "extended" flexibility / bendability factor overall in the shaft now very much improved over the unbendable, stiff, rock-hard quality that I once had. (I often feared it would "snap off" back then, it got so hard!)
The more flexible "swaying back and forth" quality of the really "larger sizes" seems to be somewhat of the norm (even with fairly firm erections) for many of us here. |