speed: [quote author=bilbobagginsx link=board=health;num=1051750231;start=0#10 date=05/08/03 at 06

31]So you'd like to be able to enjoy the sensation of orgasm without the accompanying mess?
Do what the ancient Vikings did as a form of birth control. *
Just before you reach the point of no return, search with your fingers between your ballsac and anus for that soft spot that will allow you to compress the urethra. *Press in. *You don't have to press hard (bruising or soreness could result).
This will allow you to have a 'dry' orgasm by forcing the ejaculate into your bladder. *It will be expelled later when you urinate.
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This would work but you shall still go through the refractory period process.