can't cum while receiving head

Well, it's true, DMW, that men give better head. Probably b/c we know what it's like to receive it. It's probably better from uncut men if you're uncut, cut men if you're cut.

Women eat each other out better for the same reason.

The reason I prefer plain ol' penis/vagina sex (for lack of a better term and albeit fairly creative in terms of positions) is b/c that way she gets off too. If we're lucky, we can get off at the same time, but it only happens a few times.

lonny_bobson: Glad to hear that I'm not alone out there! What's helped me a lot is having my girl maintain a constant rhythm while she's giving me service. Background music usually helps as long as it's upbeat and fast enough to get me off.

I used to hate when she'd stop midway to take a break b/c it would throw off my rhythm and I'd have to start all over again. Now when her jaw gets sore, she usually maintains a steady handjob while she takes a jaw break. What used to take me an hour to burst now takes only about 15 - 20 minutes tops.

Another suggestion is edible and tasty lubes (there's plenty of good ones out there). This serves 2 purposes: 1) it's tastier for her and 2) it feels better for him.

Lastly, don't rule out good ol' fashioned foreplay. Eating my girl out before getting head usually gets me "warmed up" before she returns the favor. By then, I'm nice and primed!

Cheers!
LB

aquaman875: I am amazed at the number of responses here. I'm one that thinks that a great blowjob is better than sex. Sex is pretty much the same sensation, although pressure comes from different places depending on position. A good blow job involves a number of sensations, from sucking to licking to rubbing, etc., plus they can play with the balls.

Granted, I haven't had that many great blow jobs, but I dated one woman who loved to give head and knew exactly what buttons to push and when. With no provocation, she would drop to her knees, give me head, then go about her business as if nothing happened.

joe: to be quite honest one of the most important things in anyone giving head is the Saliva . theres such a difference in texture to people. Think about it , no one wants some dry , acid mouth trying to get your shlong deep as possible Its True, believe me Ive had my cock sucked amillion times since i knew people were interested in it. Many Glory Holes , Guys peeking at it at the urnal, Hi school, or just walking down the street. A big cock does attract attention. mostly buy straight guys. sorry guys. and yes iam married,but that means nothing.EVERYONE want a BIG DICK

That's like saying, "I don't like condiments; I prefer mustard instead." Clue: a blowjob is sex ... that's why it's called ORAL SEX. Remember Bill Clinton claiming he never had sex with Monica Lewinsky because his cock was in her mouth instead of in her vagina? He found out how wrong that was!

hungone: I always wish I could cum while receiving head - yet it just doesn't work. With all of us saying that we can't - kinda makes you wonder how those porn stars do it!?!?

two_fister: It seems to me that even the porn stars have a hard time cumming from b/j's, most of the time they end up jerking themselves off.

[quote author=two_fister link=board=health;num=1037570629;start=15#21 date=12/02/02 at 12:25:47]It seems to me that even the porn stars have a hard time cumming from b/j's, most of the time they end up jerking themselves off.[/quote]

Porn producers call the external orgasm, such as by jerking off, the "money shot." *The porn industry, both gay and straight, seems to believe that audiences prefer to see the cum shoot, rather than have it squirted inside. *

aquaman875: [quote author=DoubleMeatWhopper link=board=health;num=1037570629;start=15#19 date=11/27/02 at 1245]

That's like saying, "I don't like condiments; I prefer mustard instead." Clue: a blowjob is sex ... that's why it's called ORAL SEX. Remember Bill Clinton claiming he never had sex with Monica Lewinsky because his cock was in her mouth instead of in her vagina? He found out how wrong that was!
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Yes, and the american public seemed to have a bigger problem with Clinton's use of semantics (depends on what your definition of "is" is.) than what he did with Monica.

In other words, you know what I meant - a great blowjob is better than intercourse.

@ericbear:
It's b/c you can fake an orgasm, but you can't fake the shot itself. With enough willpower, I can hold back the moaning, or fake an orgasm if need be, but I can't cum on command.

@aquaman:
Most ppl hate postmodernism, which is basically the essence of Clinton's defense. I personally wish they hadn't put it on the news; I can just see parents trying to contextualize it. "...and sometimes a woman will put the man's penis in her mouth. That is known as fellatio. And sometimes a woman will mount a man facing the opposite direction so that his penis will be in her mouth and her vagina will be near his mouth. This is called sixty-nine." LOL

marcin: nice South Park snag there...

brad2002: For those who have a hard time cumming while getting head, a finger up the ass and rubbing the prostate always does it for me. Ask you partner, boy or girl, to do it and watch the cum fly.

Dickprint: there has been 3 times i came while receiving head "only" (no hands, nothing but mouth action) so i know its possible for me. its just too dam infrequent. i am on a constant search for someone who can make me shoot my load each head session. its all in the technique, b/c this lady who was a friend of my aunts, gave me head twice on different days & situations and both times i came unassisted and in less than 10 minutes. wow what a feeling. nevermind that it came from someone who i wasn't even turned on by. now i would walk in public, holding hands if i could be reunited with her. she was a size queen for sure, the first time she blew me, she told me rather bluntly that she bet that i had a big dick, i laughed nervously & tried to keep cool. then i say what makes u say that, she replied b/c of the shape of your fingers. mind u i know thats total bull, but i just keep acting shy. so she asks if she can c it, i stall a little, just relishing in the moment, then i pull it out still acting shy. finally its out & she takes a good look and says i didn't know u were that big, instantly i become rock hard, her next move was straight to my dick, she held it, slapped it aroung a little, the she put it on the side of her face, next thing i know i was receiving the best head ever

duzyamuthano: i reckon i could count on the fingers of one hand the number of times i've cum just from getting a blow job. it's all down to my partner's technique, and how turned-on i am. yes, it's rare, but i have to say i don't regret not cumming from being sucked off most of the time: every experience is different, and there are so many other ways to stimulate and be stimulated, if i aimed always for oral perfection i'd be missing out on a huge range of pleasure. and i'm absolutely with dmw when he says that oral sex is sex ... as is everything else we do together. this might just be a gay man's perspective, but i find the word 'foreplay' kind of odd: the two parts fore (meaning something else must follow) and play (meaning that it's not the most important element) really seem to downgrade the kind of activities that can be -- for me at least -- just as satisfying and pleasurable as penetrative sex. which ain't top of my list, and isn't always on the menu.

oh, and by the way, those few times i have bust a nut from being blown: A-W-E-S-O-M-E-!-!-!

meathose10: Wow , this thread is a big surprise for me . I'm with DMW on this one. I've even splashed her lips after a few slurps. I have to pull out of her mouth frequently or I'll pump down her throat too soon. A BJ excites me more than vaginal sex. If you guys have trouble popping off ,try easing back in a nice chair in front of a big mirror and watch her nurse. And try holding her neck so you feel yourself hosing down in there...I promise you'll shoot.