I struggle to see what 'scares' so many people about anyone who is gay/bi/tri etc etc etc .... who the hell cares ? why be so closed minded ? If a person owns a Ferrari does that mean he is not 'allowed' to look at anyone else's Porsche ? I've never been with a guy nor do I want to, but i like to look and compare ... what does that make me ? bi-curious ? another label ! geeeez just be happy and enjoy life and try to be open minded about peoples 'preferences'