[quote author=emilywee link=board=clothing;num=1039304756;start=15#15 date=01/30/03 at 15:14:13]how do guys manage to stay soft when you're "freeballing", i would think all that movement would make it hard.[/quote]
I fall into the catagory of one of the older members here I suppose (let's just say 40's) and the issue of "managing" does not seem to be quite the problem that it was earlier in life. It all depends upon the given "environment" that I'm in at the time...although granted the "free-balling" is typically confined (for me) to just working around the house, etc.--I seldom go out publicly like that. The rare occasions I have been out publicly "while being free" were quick trips nearby the house --(errands, shopping trips to home-supply fix-up stores, etc.), whereby it would be, more than likely, that I would know other shoppers (i.e. men friends in the community who know me) or where I would not be really too "embarrassed" so to speak. And, I usually wear the kind of slacks (i.e pleated) that "control" or perhaps "conceal" the freedom movement going on under there.
I have noticed that, when I "dress to the right", I do tend to get more easily aroused because I detect more "friction" rub from clothing (than I do when "dressing to the left")...which seems strange somehow, doesn't it?
As meathose10 indicated, I too, tend to stay, for the most part, "HALF-hard" at most.....seldom get full erections when "free-balling". When FULL erections have occurred in the past (while free-balling), it makes for (me) a time of some fast-thinking and some-fast walking to leave the area and seek solace to avoid making a scene which I no doubt could; and most likely would, and probably HAVE at some time or another.
Admittedly though, when it did occur--I probably had quite a mischievious little grin on my face! ;) |