From a female perspective, it is not all about size. If there is a mental connection, then the physical just seems to fall into place and the cock you got is the best out there regardless of the past!!! It is the most beautiful. It feels the best. There is no other one out there that you would rather have. Its a hormonal/pheromone thing I guess, but it is true. I have never been with someone who is big, but I can tell that it wouldn't have mattered what the size because you are looking through the rose colored glasses of love!
Guys just need to realize this.