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Old 02-11-2008   #25 (permalink)
willow78
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Originally Posted by kirbster View Post
Stereotypes become stereotypes because there's some basis in reality. Saying that black men in general are bigger says nothing about all black men. I am highly attracted to black men and have sex more often with blacks than other races. I have found in general that they are bigger, which corresponds to the popular conception. I'm not attracted to them because of that (it's just a bonus if it happens ;-)), I'm drawn to darker skin.
I totally agree. I am also drawn to dark-skinned ethnic men, but I have always felt that way, long before I heard the whole "black men are bigger" line. When people ask me what I look for in a partner, I use the term 'Jungle Fever' even though it makes me sound shallow, patronising and even racist. But I use it because it's easier than going into a long monologue about how dark skin only GETS my attention but you need personality to KEEP it - which I have mentioned in another thread. I use it because even though I need more than just dark skin, there is no denying that it IS a factor in my initial attraction to someone. If I was just looking for sex then I would just fuck the first black man I meet, but I am looking for someone to have a full-on serious loving relationship with so I need more - a nice smile and a pretty dick ain't enough! In fact I don't even care about dick size.
I'm not sexually attracted to black women or black children, just black men, so there must be more to it than just being attracted to dark skin. I use J.F. to describe what makes me lust someone, describing what makes me love someone is far more complicated. I know I've gone off the thread a bit. Sorry about that.
As for the penis size poll, I also agree with you. I have seen all different colours in all different sizes but I have found that black men are bigger ON AVERAGE! The question was: Are black men bigger in general? To which the answer would be yes.