Grower or a Shower?

NikkiSixx: I'm 3"-4.5" long and 5"-5.5" around soft, depending on environmental conditions, and I am about 6"-6.5" long and 6" around hard, depending on how excited I am…would that make me a grower, a shower, both, or neither?

Max, there is always hope...our secret cells will emerge! :)

Nikki, hmmm, I think that's a good question! At your smallest, I think you probably are, but when you're relaxed, there isn't "that much" of a difference length wise.

Still, there is a change at all, so I'll say, "grower".

NikkiSixx: Is the erect size a good one? How about the flaccid one?

Whatever works for you. I think that it's a pretty chunky dick. And I think a lot of people would say that girth is a pretty decent thing!

BTW, I'm straight, altough "twisted" probably works for me better.

NikkiSixx: I don't know how well it "works" because I am still a virgin, though I have tried quite a bit to lose my virginity…

LoveGirl: Nikki - Don't try to hard and waste something potentially special.

(Here it is I am going to reveal his size)
Michael's a huge grower not a shower. 3frozen-5regular inches by 2 inches soft and a whopping 9 inches - 11½ inches (REALLY depends) by 8 inches. I mean whopping in a "Damnit I can't haul it up the stairs" way not a "Fills me up to the max, perfection" way. Believe me it blows huge ravioli chunks because sex is extremely difficult and at times no fun at all. Fortunately sex is not the reason we are together.

rainsfletcher: I think it's possible to tell by looking (to a certain extent) how much a dick is going to grow.

For me, even though I'm cut, the skin still tends to bunch up at the head. It almost look like one of those wrinkly puppies (Sharpei?). Other's I've seen, the skin is smooth and sort-of stretched, with the head already prounounced.. Even if it's hanging streight down, you can see it really doesn't have much room to grow.

No, it's not a universal thing, I'm sure, but does anyone else agree with this?

LoveGirl: I kinda do.

I think your sweetums is practically a Godzilla! :huh:

Yeah, I agree with Rain, in my case, my skin is pretty loose, then tightens up as I get harder. I've even been complimented on it. B)

LoveGirl: I measured on a really good day...

yeah, i have a job of poking the head through the hole because I have to bunch it up behind the head. There is loads of room for growth so do you think it will? I'm 17 so I suppose I might have a few years left?

It's hard to tell if I am a shower or a grower. Flaccid, if I am completely comfortable, I am about 5.25 inches long, but if I am uncomfortable or have just finished working out, I am about 3-4 inches long. I guess the blood leaves my penis to go to my muscles. When I am erect, I am just over 8 inches long and about 5.25 inches around. So, in some cases, I am a shower, and in other cases, I am a grower.

This disparity has caused me some problems. I swam on my highschool swim team, and we would shower together after workouts. Since, I was never completely comfortable, and since I had just finished a workout, I never really hung well. So, although I wasn't small, I never seemed large, which was exasperating. Guys make "size" jokes all the time, and it would've been nice to have public proof of my endowment.

On the flip side, I would not like to have my large flaccid penis bouncing while I was trying to run a race or lift weights. It's nice that I can sort of tuck away and then expand on demand.

LoveGirl: I forgot to mention, it's really wrinkled up when it's soft. It's so cute!

Probably not. About 80% of all men reach their adult penis length by the time they reach sixteen. However, many of the men here have proven to be the exception. I wouldn't hold my breath, though.

Just wondering--

At one time in discussing what determines "a shower" .....
weren't we close to agreeing that a "shower" is best defined as....

Anyone (when flaccid) who is already above the (average) 3.5 to 4 inch mark
in length and who increases by LESS than 50% to his full erect size?
(Ex. 5 inch flaccid to 7 inch erect)

A "grower" on the other hand would be anyone who increases by more than
50% to his full erect size...
(Ex. THAT could be someone who's 3" flaccid but zooms to 7" erect length!)

Anyone else follow or recall this rationale?

--I KNOW I didn't just make it up! :D