Jealous of Bigger Friends

Steve26: Hi, Jakeson -- You're free to have whatever fantasies float your boat. BUT ... keep in mind that very few girls care how big a guy is when he's soft. I can't imagine any girl worth bothering with would make a big deal out of it.

In fact, there are a lot of us here who would say you've got the best of both worlds -- a cock that's VERY respectable when hard but doesn't get in the way of your everyday life. Locker room showoffs aside, there are a lot of downsides to a cock that's huge when soft. Even the locker room thing is a mixed blessing: I personally wish I had a lot fewer freaks gawking at me when I hit the showers, and I'm "only" 5-6" soft.

Another thing to keep in mind is that guys you see in the locker room who are 8" soft may not get any bigger when they're hard. (Look for posts here on "growers" and "showers.") So ... at the times when it really counts, you're essentially just as well-equipped as they are.

Steve ;)

miket: Every guy compares and I totally understand where jakeson1200 is coming from though as Steve26 says you are bigger when hard than your small soft prick would imply. I always wonder if the girl would moan more and be much happier with my large hung friends. When a guy is hanging large it is somewhat intimidating and somewhat a turn on to think of how he could use that on my girl. When we guys are naked and letting ourselves just be men together whether a small dick is sticking straight out or a large thick one is hanging there is a sense of bonding (though there is a certain ranking amongst ourselves) but to imagine the women coming in and snickering at us smaller and average dudes and lusting for the big dudes adds a whole other dynamic that is a turn on.

One time my friend saw my penis and did not speak to me for weeks. I assume it was because of that, but I'm not sure.

If you desire to see a big dick guy working over your gf and her making sounds/expressions you've never seen, and it turns you on to hear about her former big guy(s) as you desire her to tell you in every detail what those big guys did to her and how she much she responded, then that falls under sph (there are some rare cases in which it isn't sph in that a guy doesn't have jealousy/ego about this and gets great pleasure out of seeing her pleased under any circumstance. Those guys tend to become swingers). If you don't desire to see it happen but are curious whether she would react more with a bigger dick plowing her out then that often falls under insecurity (or become concerned she has been nailed by a bigger one(s) in the past and that she may have reacted more). It is possible for one to wonder about it without being insecure, that is if one merely briefly ponders whether there is logic to bigger being better, and then moves on or decides bigger isn't better.