my female freinds...

mortis: it has come to my attention that of the three female friends that i have, all three have seen a dick that is 9" or bigger...one saw a 9"er (estimation), one saw a 10"er (measured), and the other saw a 10"er (estimation) let alone numerous others that they see along the way...
don't get me wrong, these girls aren't sluts either, the first two were look but dont touch(the guys suggested otherwise but to no avail), the 10" estimation was touch and that's all...the girls are all pretty and either 20 or younger...
am i attracting freaks? am i TOO trustworthy? or are these girls perfectly normal and every girl under the age of 20 has seen things like this??

richie: Women discussing men's cock size - nothing freaky or unusual there.

However, 9 inch cocks are uncommon and 10 inch cocks are very rare. Therefore if you take 3 random women it's extremely unlikely that each of them will have encountered at least one 9 or 10 incher.

It's entirely possible that these women may be exaggerating/lying about the sizes of the cocks they saw. They may have made a mistake, misjudged the size, measured incorrectly etc. They may be trying to "compete" with each other in terms of who has encountered the largest cock. Do they know you have a large cock - they may be trying to "deflate your ego" by discussing large cocks as if they are extremely common, nothing special and so on. Just remember that there's an awful lot of bullshit associated with cock size measurements/claims and women can be just as guilty as men when it comes to exaggerating about size.

richie

[quote author=mortis link=board=relationships;num=1041863813;start=0#0 date=01/06/03 at 06:36:53]am i attracting freaks?[/quote]

It depends on what you call a "freak." Something you didn't mention in your post was whether or not these women have demonstrated an attraction for you. It may be a strange occurrence that all three ladies have encountered incredibly well-endowed men; as Richie pointed out, statistically, for each women to have truly seen a dick that size it's:
B x B x B, where B = the percentage of men who have 9" or more.

You might be confusing "freak" with the term "size queen" (someone who' solely interested in having sexual relations with well endowed men), but other than that, I don't see why these women are strange. Don't let their dick talk offset you; hell, we talk about women all the time, right?

[quote author=mortis link=board=relationships;num=1041863813;start=0#0 date=01/06/03 at 06:36:53]am i TOO trustworthy?[/quote]

Do you mean gullible? Well, we don't even know for sure whether or not the girls have had real encounters with big dick guys. You're not foolish for taking them at their word.

[quote author=mortis link=board=relationships;num=1041863813;start=0#0 date=01/06/03 at 06:36:53]or are these girls perfectly normal and every girl under the age of 20 has seen things like this??[/quote]

Could be, you never know.

Don't worry about it, man. So long as you're secure with your own meat and personality, then there's no problem here.

Another possibilty:

She: "How big is it?"

He: "Oh, I'd say about 10" or so."

Some women are such trusting creatures. I knew a girl who swore that my ex-roommate had 8" ... because he said so! I've seen him in the state of full wood; no more than 6".

Curtis: DMW's answer is the most plausible.

Most women, when asked to estimate the height of a beer bottle, couldn't guess it within 3 inches.

Curtis

mortis:

The responses so far here are good ones. What struck me odd was all three of your female friends spoke of witnessing "exceptional sizes" when we all know that statistically, they are rare within the general population. The reality that all three actually saw what they did (to me) is highly questionable. Also--it's a valid point already made too, that "what they thought they saw and how they "measured out" are probably WAY apart in actual true dimensions. To many first timers who see big--it's easy to "over-estimate"! It's the "shock" factor. --Hence, another question about believability.

As members, we tend to lose perspective here on the LPSG. With so "many" larger guys assembled in this on-line community, we would think there are vast numbers of hung guys out there---that the big ones seem to dominate. Again, statistically however--that's NOT the case! In fact, FAR from it!

Believe it... Large is the exception and not the rule!

Finally, I like what Dee said at the end of his post--
Don't worry about it! Stay secure about yourself and in essence, move forward. You have a lot going for you!

Alligator_Jack: i dunno, ive seen a lot of penises in my life being in the locker rooms, and it seems like theyre big, or small, theres less six inchers than anything else it seems like, maybe thats just me

mortis: i should have explained a lot more...
they don't know each other, so it's not like they were comparing (not with each other anyway) - they all separately told me at different times...
the prospect of us dating was never really an issue, they don't like me except for being a friend...
and perhaps the most important of all - i don't have a big dick...i am average...basically i'm NOT secure about my owm meat, and their enthusiastic praise for other guys dick hasn't exactly helped, as you could imagine...should i give these enlargement techniques a try or is that just a waste of time? i'm only 20, if that makes any difference...
i believe that all girls are 'size queens' to some extent...i mean they're all at least fascinated a little bit with big dicks at first aren't they? line up a bunch of naked guys with varying cock sizes, and their eyes would immediately look at the biggest guy...
thanks for the resonses so far, they have all been great

mindseye: [quote author=mortis link=board=relationships;num=1041863813;start=0#7 date=01/09/03 at 06:41:13]line up a bunch of naked guys with varying cock sizes, and their eyes would immediately look at the biggest guy...[/quote]

I can see why you might think that, given that you're "NOT secure" about the size of your own dick, but I disagree with the conclusion you've drawn.

You've allowed the guys to have varying cock sizes, but you haven't allowed the women to have varying tastes. One might be drawn to the guy with the best abs, one might be drawn to the guy with the hairiest chest, one might be drawn to the guy with the biggest smile. And once the women got to know the men's personalities, then all bets are off!

It's possibly true that more women prefer larger cocks to smaller cocks, than the other way around. But I believe for most of those women, the strength of that preference is fairly weak -- that other factors almost always take precedence over penis size. Then, if the guy happens to have a big dick as well, that's just a bonus.

I bet if you gave yourself an honest self-assessment, you'd find that even if you don't have this particular 'bonus', you've got a lot going for you anyway. Hell, three women seem to like you enough to open up to you. That's more than a lot of straight men have going for them!

Icarus213: Well said.

A lot of chicks talk to me like I'm one of the girls ... (hmmm, go figure) ... and most of them say that the most important physical feature of a man is his eyes or his ass. Cock size doesn't even range in the Top 5.

mortis: well said, mindseye...you definitely made a good point - especially the 'bonus' part, because all those girls made that same point to me as well...
still, either way, i would definitely prefer to have this bonus...so really, should i bother with the enlargement exercises or is there just really no point??
i am certain it would make me feel more comfortable and confident around girls if it did work, especially seeing as i am now average and would be able to appreciate it more if i got bigger...

Mortis...I'm glad you elaborated a bit more after the first several replies...it helps us better understand where you're coming from and the source of your concern.
Many of us can (and do) relate to your insecurity over your size. It's almost universal among men to care about our size and how we compare to other guys.
* *However----
Penis Enlargement (PE) ---should you try it...will you get results? Ask yourself these questions:
* *(1) *Where are you now in current size?
* *(2) *Where do you desire to go (to what bigger size?)
* *(3) *Is this new size realistic (attainable thru PE?)
* *(4) How important is this REALLY to you?
* *(5) How dedicated would you (could you) be to PE?

Now..."the facts" based on what seems to be the case with PE...
* *(1) Results are never guaranteed....and they vary from man to man, too.The penis is VERY resistant to change quickly...It will change, but----- S *L *O *W *L *Y *!
* (2) Potential minimum growth is typically about 1"
(pretty much over the first two to six months) *After that--it becomes (often) S L O W going---plateaus occur with little (if any) progress for months sometimes.
* (3) Best results seem to occur with exercise, jelqing, in conjunction with proper diet, nutrition, and positive attitude to stick out the regimens. Sometimes a regimen of the above with (some) vacuum pumping again over long, long periods of time...often--into several years!!!

Are you up to all of this...and some expense for supplies like nutritional supplements, a (good quality) pump and even some stretching devices (like weights) which, at best, are somewhat risky to causing injury...

Maximum growth from enlargement seldom (or, easily) exceeds two inches it seems...would you then achieve the size you first desired from all of this?
* * * *How do I know all of this?
I have done PE....I stayed with it for two and one half years and I WORKED HARD to achieve 2.25" of linear improvement and about 1" in girth. *Yeh...I feel better about "packing more". *Yeh...it put a bit more confidence in my step, too! *But, I am learning (as I go thru life beyond PE !) that what many have been telling you here is VERY TRUE! *There's more to you as a man than the size of your penis. *And not every female looks for the size factor first! *Sometimes,now--I feel a bit foolish for what I put myself through, although I have to say I really don't regret it. *But, it was a grueling routine.
And, whoa! --it's NOT "body building", believe me!


None of us here can tell you what to do. I would recommend thinking about what has been said in other posts: (i.e.---------------------------------------------------------

A larger size penis brings a man "larger-size issues" to deal with (read the many posts about problems in sex!)

And, what kind of sexual relationships are you seeking--
temporary with no commitment? (where size queens can often rule, then vanish into the night--)

Or--longer-term, more permanent relationships where penis size (whatever size) is not the issue but instead adoring you for being an affectionate, caring, nurturing, and adoring man,-- and you becoming sensitive to your lover's needs for the same where the sex will work out on its own regardless of size) *
* *Mortis, * * Take a deep breath. Take your time.
* * * * * * * * * * And, think this through. *
*(HEY! *Don't worry. * You'll figure this out! * ;) * * *)
*

alextg: [quote author=DoubleMeatWhopper link=board=relationships;num=1041863813;start=0#10 date=01/09/03 at 1624]A lot of chicks talk to me like I'm one of the girls ... (hmmm, go figure) ... and most of them say that the most important physical feature of a man is his eyes or his ass. Cock size doesn't even range in the Top 5. *[/quote]
Well in that case, according to unsolicited popular female opinion (SO's and female friends close and distant enough to tell me), I must be doing pretty good. Would I trade those attributes for a more satisfyingly large set of equipment? Yeah, well, sure; At least I'd be able to see what they were talking about! ;D

Okay, sorry to butt in; being only 7x5.5, I'll now return to OSLTAPSG.COM (Only Slightly Larger Than Average Penis Support Group). ;) Seriously; Though I may not "fit in" here as much as many of you, there's certainly a lot of excellent info here. Great site! I hope you folks don't mind me posting this here. :)

missvelvet03: well i'm 21 and the biggest i've seen is 7.5" ... but still looking ;-)