my female freinds...

gigantikok: [quote author=DoubleMeatWhopper link=board=relationships;num=1041863813;start=0#10 date=01/09/03 at 1624]A lot of chicks talk to me like I'm one of the girls ... (hmmm, go figure) ... and most of them say that the most important physical feature of a man is his eyes or his ass. Cock size doesn't even range in the Top 5. *[/quote]

You always preach this. Well, i'd like to think penis size matters more than that, and i think it does. Alot of these "lists" or surveys that ask women what they perfer in a man either doesnt offer penis size as an option, or the women don't feel they can talk about in becuase in our society it is taboo for women to mention an interest in penis size. They get written off as sluts or freaks. But if talking about penis size was as common as displaying an interest in a guy's ass, i think it would at least be in the top 4 or 5 of EVERY woman's list. Maybe you these girls you talk to legitimatley don't look for penis size, maybe there is something they are not telling you, maybe they are lieing to each other, but either way SIZE MATTERS. I'm just tired of hearing you take every opportunity possible to preach about how it doesn't. That's your opinion, that's (maybe) your friend's opinion, but don't speak for all woman-kind.

AnonyMs: DMW is of the opinion size does not matter - you are of the opinion that it does. One could make an argument either way I suppose. As for me, I think Sammygirly said it best - it probably matters as much as breast size does for most heterosexual men... something to admire, perhaps lust after, make comments about, but hardly something to base a relationship on, or to use as a barometer of a person's worth.

[quote author=gigantikok link=board=relationships;num=1041863813;start=24#3 0 date=04/27/03 at 19:16:38]
women don't feel they can talk about in becuase in our society it is taboo for women to mention an interest in penis size.[/quote]

Women can't talk about dicks? That'll be the day! They all agree that a nice sized dick is a bonus, but it doesn't form the basis of initial attraction. "It's not like I see the man's hard-on before I accept a date."

I'm not a woman and wouldn't presume to speak for them any more than you speak for all men. I'm just relating my own opinion and that of women with whom I've spoken. You have an opnion, and that's fine. I have an opinion, and guess what? That's fine,too. My views are not of less merit simply because they don't jibe with yours. If you are really tired of my so-called 'preaching', scrolling past my posts whenever you see my name isn't too difficult to do, is it? We all have opinions here ... that's part of what makes LPSG what it is.

tott666: Size does matter, yes.

A huge dick might be an ego boost, it certainly makes other people curious. Some might want to try it out for the novelty, sort of. (Lets be honest; there is an ever so slight possibility that someone who approaches you solely because of your dick size might not actively be searching for a meaningful relationship...)

BUT I've also seen quite a few complaints here on LPSG about how some bigger guys are refused entry at times, or it takes a lot of work to be able to. (I suppose it's a labour of love...) Just sayin'.

Anyway, the female friends I've talked to about size say (and I agree) that size is not the most important thing. Very small or very big dicks are not preferred though. I think most girls (and guys) are more than willing to play with a large spectrum of the bell curve. I think that's the reason why dick size doesn't usually rank that high on the attraction top 5, most guys will be of "acceptable" size.

Unless you're a size queen.

An addition: most of these surveys about attraction ask about the first things you look for when you see a man/woman. Dick size is usually not visible if you're wearing clothes...

AnonyMs: [quote author=tott666 link=board=relationships;num=1041863813;start=24#3 3 date=04/27/03 at 23:43:03]An addition: most of these surveys about attraction ask about the first things you look for when you see a man/woman. Dick size is usually not visible if you're wearing clothes...[/quote]Excellent point! And do not think I have long fumed at the injustice of that! <giggle>

Actually, it might be interesting to ask the Q which was more important : the size of a man's penis or the size of his wallet. When phrased that way, it seems clearer that any woman who responded with the latter was either shallow or out only for one thing. Bingo! The same hold true for the former as well.

sammygirly: ~applauds~

I've said my piece on this a few times - so I'll just applaud some more.

~applauds~

mortis: I can realate to what mrprof has said...When speaking about big dicks, girls often tend to use an impressed or dreamy tone that confirms any queries on the 'does size matter?' question...Blah blah not the most important thing etc...
I think essentially it is a 'bonus' if a guy has a big cock...At least that's what one of those girls told me regarding size (After I had questioned her numerous times on it)...She also said that girls often talk about size to each other, gossiping, which I guess should be expected...
For example, she often heard from female friends that 'His rod was soooo big'...It became obvious that girls most certainly do 'suck and tell' - probably even more than usual when they are still teenagers and sex is more common than long, emotion-based relationships...Well, I often hear from my guy friends about their girlfriends' shaved pussies or positions/activity/how horny they get behind closed doors...It's to be expected...
I really find it arousing when girls talk about big dicks though...It's something about their reaction and how much they seemed to enjoy at least seeing it, if nothing more...It obviously excited them, even if it was only visual...I have also been told by one of them that it was, at the least, a 'visual turn-on' to see a big dick...
On a side note, I find that they always tell the truth as mrprof said about his second girl - if you say something about seeing a guy who was hung, they will often say something like 'Oh yeah, well I once saw this guy...' Too easy.