I'm really interested in having a j/o buddy, but whenever I find someone they end up wanting to suck me off and it sort of kills the mood.

I'm totally into watching straight guys (or bi, whatever) jack off and that's it. Mutual is cool, too but not all the time.

There are still some J/O clubs in existence, but none in my area and all of the j/o parties I've heard of are usually some cock whore guy trying to get a gangbang going on. Not really interested in that.