i have used an extender and then I had to write about it.

I’ve had a similar experience to many of you. I have been obsessed with wanting to know if my girl would really like me to be larger or to try someone or something larger. It can take a lot for a woman to admit to wanting anything more than you. Love maybe involved, desire not to hurt your feelings and the classic concern that admission of liking largeness implicated some sort of carnal sluttiness. In the period of 2 years I changed and perhaps ruined my ex forever. To encourage taking on hugeness and find out she prefers it can be a totally self-fulfilling prophecy.
I started when I saw the small vibrator she had. 5 1/2 x 5. I said it was puny and she was surprised. I suggested she could enjoy something my size or maybe as big as her biggest lover. We went toy shopping many times, always at my encouragement. We started with one she said was as thick as her biggest lover but much longer. It was 8” x 6.25” in girth. She was all about girth. We bought sleeves that brought my 7 x 5.75 stuff up to 6.25 “ and she really loved it. Eventually I would force a few fingers in beside my cock. It became rare that we’d fuck without any kind of toy, device, or extra fingers. Finally we bought a huge thick jelly cock that was 8” long, too long for her, but 7.75” thick. Sometimes I would wear it in my underwear keeping the balls inside and we’d screw with the un verbalized fantasy that I was this hung. I basically started getting off on the implicit smaller cock humiliation. One night when we were drunk and I was penetrating her with the big one, I convinced her to tell me that it was the best full feeling, that my cock was too small for her anymore and would never give her enough pleasure. She did. I came. And worked myself out of a job.