Virgins

eyemready: For you mammoths -- have you fucked a virgin (m or f)? Do you think it is right to inflict this kind of pain as a first sexual experience? Do any of you require a date to be "pre-fucked" before they graduate to the super-size? Is there a moral dimension to exposing a virgin to a size he/she is unlikely to ever encounter again in intercourse?

BIGCOX10: Dude, you just got to take it easy at first and let him or her get used to the length and girth. If you go too fast it will just be an unpleasant experience for both of you. Remember not to go too deep until they get used to it. If you don't you'll wind up tearing the condom.

[quote author=eyemready link=board=sex;num=1082868123;start=0#0 date=04/24/04 at 2103] . . . . *Do any of you require a date to be "pre-fucked" before they graduate to the super-size? *[/quote]
Dildoes come in all sizes. Rather than "requiring" a pre-fucking, you can always have fun using graduated dildoes, if the person is so inclined. Just a thought!

eyemready: Very thoughtful responses. Thanks!

RKT1001: One thing to consider eyemready is that if a woman has never been with a guy approaching my size - say a few average sized guys at the largest - then the fist time with me is a lot like her "first time" in the physical sense of accomodating a size like nothing she has experienced before.

Clearly, it does not have the same psychological impact of the true loss of virginity episode, but I have had girls coment that they "might as well have been a virgin" or "it was like I was a virgin again, only better" among other similar statements.

A girl who has been with no guy larger than say 5.5 by 4.5 who is confronted with a ten by six *is not losing her true virginity, but is in for quite a "virginal" experience.

I guess my final rambling point - sorry, not much sleep lately - is that for a huge man, many first times with women must be treated with the same care as being with a virgin, or you might not get many second times.

RKT

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thingsteal: I've had a couple of teenage girlfriends who were virgins. I also had a lot of chicks who were very limited in the number of sexual experiences they had before meeting me.

Once we did it, I ruined them for life. How do I know? I've either stayed in touch with some, run into one another while out on the town, or I get an email via a friend of a friend. They have a way of saying it. Some are more forthcoming than others. One gal described her husband as, "Oh, he's OK. He's sort of an average guy, if you know what I mean. (wink)"

Even the ones where it ended badly, they're all flirty and happy to see me again. Yeah, right, whatever, I've seen your darkside.

My wife didn't have much experience either. She'd lost her virginity in college to a boyfriend who was also a virgin himself. Average guy, came quick, didn't do anything special. Both wanted to "get it over with" and that never leads to any great sexual relationships, does it?

It took a lot of work, but I built her into a well-experienced fucking, sucking, and cumming machine. I know I've ruined her. She says if I died tomorrow she'd have to go out and buy a big fucking vibrator.

I'm reminded here in this discussion that no matter his size, the man would do well to take things "easy" the first time. Those of us who happen to be larger MUST take things "extra easy". (There are benefits in doing so for both him and her)

Truth of the matter is no matter how big, the man's attitude towards the woman and what he's about to do is paramount way beyond how big he is. If he's sensitive to HER needs and her pleasure, he will find ways (creative or not) to make the love-making a memorable event...for both of them.

Being "larger" doesn't have to translate into tearing a woman all to pieces. Nor does it have to wind up "spoiling her" forever, either. Hopefully. she'll inevitably treasure the man for WHO he is and NOT what he has. Ideally, his larger size will be a "bonus" and not just the main attraction.

palladen: Well spake, Ben. A more civilized retort than what I had planned :)

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ymir: when i first hooked up my with girlfriend, she was a virgin.

which i didnt know at first but very quickly found out when her first "blowjob" left me literally red raw. we had to work on that, and now she would but a pornstar to shame but neways...

the first tiime we slept together, we had had quite a few drinks, and she was VERY relaxed.

after heaps of foreplay (as much to sober us up as for the fun of it) i took it real slow, and there was hardly ne bleeding at all.

afterwards she was gonna tell me NOWAY, and in her words it would have been like "parking a buldozer in a catflap" but said that the booze loosened her up a lot.

its probly not the best way, but it sure killed the anxiety

Hey, whatever works.

I can always hope that she appreciates a good "tongue lashing!"

That's definitely true about those of us who are considerably bigger, and taking it easy with the inexperienced. You have to bear in mind that they have never experienced anything like this, and if rushed into could turn a potential good experience into a disaster, I.E., doing more bad than good.

That's what I'm concerned about. Saying that, as a female friend pointed out to me, who said my first time "has" to be with a Virgin?

Are the any women in the world more patient than I am?

LoveGirl: My first time was with my love that I am still with, and he has a large penis. I loved our first time but it was painful, no matter how gentle he was, for the first 1-2 minutes. I think it just means more when there is no option other than a little pain. It means the girl (in this case me) is sacrificing a small part of herself, and taking a little pain, to please the guy. Just so everyone knows, I'm cathy from the old account "vigilante". When it was set to this new site layout it deleted my account and turned all my posts to guest posts. :angry:

love,
how big is your man?

LoveGirl: I don't think it matters, but he is big enough to be here.