biggbenn8: Well, being from a 'big' familly I think I would get more attention NOT showing some type of bulge. It is just a given that we all bulge- even in courderoys my father shows a bulge. The twins usually wear slightly nice clothes- the eldest (the 'rogue' will sometimes wear tight pants, the middle- more conservative wears tapered pants or something dressy casual, the youngest (and biggest and very self concious) usually wears very floppy pants/slacks). Ditto my brother/nephew.
One son usually brings his girlfriend (soon to be fiance' I expect)- and well, if she doen't know about my son...then she can figure it out from us.
This is OUR home... not 'out and about' and by god if I can't be comfortable at home...screw it :)
I have worn chef pants on occasion if I am doing 'a big meal'.
Funny note- one year the goose was still a bit frozen- so there I am, hand shoved up its 'ass', trying to dig out this very thick, long neck out... and got a ROARING hard on... had to lean against the counter or turn everytime soeone came in. My eldest saw it, and commented "oh, your stuffing the turkey yourself?" that rogue....but hell, why being embarrassed- a hard on is just a hard on. | 
