A thing to consider, mate, is that a lot of those humongous monster dicks (9"+) are truly heinous looking (lumpy, bumpy, and hose-like) and, at least in porn, they are attached to some butt-ugly guys. Personally, aesthetics is not a size issue but, rather, an overall healthy-looking-bloke issue. I mean who wouldn't rather boink the average hung Brad Pitt over the prodigously dangling Ron Jeremy?