I'm in the 7 inch range and have been told enough by guys who ought to know that I'm big. Some of that may just be complimentary, but surely not every time. Of course, if you choose to compare with the guys here, some of whom are exaggerating and some of whom are genuinely huge, or with porn stars (all of whom are exaggerating and many of whom are genuinely huge) then you're going to feel a little small. But don't worry, you're not.