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Originally Posted by Lampwick  I'm with NineInchCock_160IQ on this one. There are a lot of ways to make pretty innocent physical contact and gauge the reaction. Put your hand on her shoulder. Put your hand on her forearm when you want to draw her attention to something. Helping her on with her coat is a great way to be making some contact. And when you make the contact, gauge her response. Does she flinch and draw away, or look at you, or smile, or what? And at some point, you'll be close together and you'll catch her looking at her (or she'll catch you looking at her), and you'll probably have a pretty good idea of whether a kiss is in order. |
yes exactly. I wasn't arguing that you should just charge blindly in... just try to be physically connected and nominally affectionate in some way... you'll be able to tell a lot about how she's feeling toward you based on her reaction. Then.. if she reciprocates... don't be dickless and step it up when you feel its appropriate to do so. Girls don't like guys who are too timid to do anything when the girls are sending out their enigmatic "signals" that we're all supposed to magically pick up on.